Nowadays, so many women settle into their relationships and tend to begin feeling too comfortable. With this comes a few things that anyone reading this blog will probably agree on… perhaps you don't dress as sexy any longer as you once did? Maybe at the end of the day you're just 'too tired' to get romantic?
You don't come to bed for a night of steamy passion, rather you come out of the bathroom in a pajama set or worse, a long nightshirt...and socks. Maybe you just don’t have the will to want to spice things up?
A few things can and will happen most definitely; he'll notice (for sure) if you don't seem as willing to initiate foreplay or want intercourse. He might tell you that your legs feel like he is rubbing up again a cactus? Am I getting warmer? Look, where they might tend to drift off watching golf or sporting events and fall asleep on the sofa or worse, their favorite 'Archie Bunker' chair. Truth be told, sometimes it's nice to rekindle that magic that brought you both together in the first place.
I think that too many people watch television too much or read forums about fantasies between couples and way too many people associate this with their own relationship which can be utterly toxic. No two relationships are the same. For a variety of reasons not all couples have that constant need to get it on, and that’s ok.
Sometimes, especially if you have been married or in a relationship for a while and even more so if you have children, you find yourselves getting sidetracked by events involving them and by the end of the day passion has exited right out the window. It happens to all of us. It is also normal so do not think for a moment that you are having relationship problems. It just might mean that your schedules are or have become far too busy for one another and you need to do some rearranging.
For the ladies, plan an evening just for him whereas you make him special. Give him a massage, cook him a special romantic dinner and serve it up in something that is sure to get his attention. For the guys, don't forget to tell her how special she is from time to time, or every day for that matter. Say 'I Love You' more often. Tell her that she is pretty. Women love compliments just as men enjoy getting their egos stroked. Communication is key and whether you are doing it in a verbal or non-verbal way, the cold hard facts are that your actions speak volume.
Want my nonprofessional advice? Make the time! Make the time to show your lover or your partner that you care. Make the time to take a bubble bath together. Make the time to put on something sexy when you come to bed. Slinky to me is not sexy. I’ll suggest intimates that are comfortable to wear but have the ‘come hither’ non-verbal language that will speak to him.
A few things can and will happen most definitely; he'll notice (for sure) if you don't seem as willing to initiate foreplay or want intercourse. He might tell you that your legs feel like he is rubbing up again a cactus? Am I getting warmer? Look, where they might tend to drift off watching golf or sporting events and fall asleep on the sofa or worse, their favorite 'Archie Bunker' chair. Truth be told, sometimes it's nice to rekindle that magic that brought you both together in the first place.
I think that too many people watch television too much or read forums about fantasies between couples and way too many people associate this with their own relationship which can be utterly toxic. No two relationships are the same. For a variety of reasons not all couples have that constant need to get it on, and that’s ok.
Sometimes, especially if you have been married or in a relationship for a while and even more so if you have children, you find yourselves getting sidetracked by events involving them and by the end of the day passion has exited right out the window. It happens to all of us. It is also normal so do not think for a moment that you are having relationship problems. It just might mean that your schedules are or have become far too busy for one another and you need to do some rearranging.
For the ladies, plan an evening just for him whereas you make him special. Give him a massage, cook him a special romantic dinner and serve it up in something that is sure to get his attention. For the guys, don't forget to tell her how special she is from time to time, or every day for that matter. Say 'I Love You' more often. Tell her that she is pretty. Women love compliments just as men enjoy getting their egos stroked. Communication is key and whether you are doing it in a verbal or non-verbal way, the cold hard facts are that your actions speak volume.
Want my nonprofessional advice? Make the time! Make the time to show your lover or your partner that you care. Make the time to take a bubble bath together. Make the time to put on something sexy when you come to bed. Slinky to me is not sexy. I’ll suggest intimates that are comfortable to wear but have the ‘come hither’ non-verbal language that will speak to him.
Whatever your choice may be, always select a color that is vivid and right for you. Select the right size lingerie and a piece that makes you feel confident and sexy. Show off your torso! You can keep the sparks in your relationship without having to bend over backwards for your partner to satisfy them. It only takes something little to ignite a spark...
Slip into something sensual and make tonight special. Shop Simply Delicious Fashion for all of your intimate apparel needs. My suggestion is always to keep it flirty and simple.
Slip into something sensual and make tonight special. Shop Simply Delicious Fashion for all of your intimate apparel needs. My suggestion is always to keep it flirty and simple.
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